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Zemo Trevathan

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Pattern Interrupts

Posted on August 21, 2020February 17, 2024 by AdminZemoTrevathan
50,000 thoughts a day.  That’s what we do, we humans.
How many of them are new? Less than 5%.

We are. by default. habitually churning through the same thoughts without much changing…  That’s quite a leak in our effectiveness and impact.

So here’s my invitation: take a few minutes with me right now to “grab a wrench” and perform a Pattern Interrupt. I’m going to literally do it “with you” as I write this.  

First, change your location. Get out of the seat you are in and move to a new spot, even if it is just across the table or the other end of the couch. As you go, grab a piece of paper or open a blank document on your screen, and take the next few minutes to write out your answers to these three questions:

1.  Which thought or thoughts do I habitually re-think that represent the biggest “leaks” in my life?

2.  What’s the cost to my life (and/or those around me) of habitually repeating those thoughts?

3. What one thing do I commit to TODAY to interrupt that thought pattern and create a new possibility?

Now go do what you committed to!  And email me to tell me what it is, if you’d like.

Mine was simple. I’ve been habitually thinking/worrying about what one particular person will do and/or think about me.  It has cost me stress, irritability, and even some loss of sleep. What I commit to today is that each time I become aware of these thoughts, I will energetically give this person my permission to think/do whatever they need to do, and allow myself to be at peace with that.  

Thanks for joining me in this Pattern Interrupt, I now return you to your regular stations…
Zemo

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About Notes from an Elder Child

As I turned 60, a number of things dawned on me. For one, I realized that I am an Elder. And, like almost everyone else I know who has hit this stage of life will say, I don’t feel like an Elder. I still feel like a child.  And since I am, in my family, the Eldest Chid, that all kinda made sense to me.  

Another thing I’ve slowly realized is that — even though I teach/train/coach for a living, and even though I think I have more and more to share, as I age — I have less and less desire to “tell” people things. Unless they have asked.  But I have a lot to share.  So my main purpose in these Notes is to share, from the perspective of a perpetual child who now finds himself an Elder.  Not things I think anyone else should know, or should do, just things I’ve learned or experienced that have made a difference to me, living this amazing, ridiculous life.

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